Disappearing act

[lightoftruth]

I had a friend on myspace from devon (i live in derby) we got on quite well and often chatted on msn and phone etc. We were quite pally and all of a sudden i see she's deleted herself from my friends list and wont return any of my messages. I was planning on going down to see her this summer ( she knew about this and was a little excited) She just seems to be removing me.

Its ming me feel quite crappy at the mo can anyone offer me some advice.

Cheers in advance

[wendilla]

I am not saying your friend wasn't genuine as you really have to be careful who you talk too.It seems as if she has backed out when you mentioned about going down to meet her.What she told you perhaps was not all true.I could be wrong but I am just stressing a point.

[B00]

most friendships via MSN, MySpace don't last anyway. Whilst your on there you remain faceless so therefore not quite 'real'.

[angel-cake]

Maybe she has met someone else and just didnt want to tell you.

[PhilBy]

wendilla make a very valid point, I am sure there are a few on here with made up personalities & lifestyles! It may also be that the parents of your friend is none to happy at her agreeing to meet someone she only knows from the internet?

[rugeleyboy]

in my opinion....... i love talking to almost everyone on the sites i visit, but if anyone REALLY wanted to meet me, i would back off very quickly??

[Cheekystar]

Just move on, you've tried to contact her and for what ever reason she's not responding, perhaps she'll contact you when she's able to explain what's happend until then there is nothing more you can do, maybe her situation changed or she got cold feet.

[lilacben]

Oh dear I think this person was scared off as soon as you said about meeting up. we have met people on holiday and got on great. then kept in touch when we got home.We would phone a couple of times and then as soon as someone mentioned visiting the others cool of very quickly and you never hear from them again. think this has happened to you. I got chatting to someone on a holiday site and we seemed to get on very well emailing to each oter. But when we met up we didnt really have anything in common and didnt see much of them whilst on holiday. Dont let it get you down. You can alwas chat to me on here if you like. Brenda x

[RogK]

My opinion is that people who join these boards on the whole wish to remain anonymous. I know I do. I don't want to reveal much of myself and I certainly don't want to meet anyone. I don't want to publish photos and I don't want to know what other posters look like. That' s the whole point for me - I can be as friendly as you like and can chat away for ever, but if anyone wants to meet me they can forget it.

You may have found someone like me, lightoftruth - forget and move on.