Hes still online dating?

[blondie74]

I have been seeing this guy for a 3 months but I've noticed recently when looking online with my friend. hes still online dating? We seem real close and he has bought presents etc? Should i say something?

[chicklin]

Course you bloody should!!!! whats he playing at? would he say anyting to you if it was you who was still doing it?.....

[blondie74]

I dont think hes a full member. however he was even on it last night? Should i still say something? I deleted mine and he know this!

[LittleMissxx]

he obviously still keeping his options open !! MEN !!!

[surferg1rl]

Just had a nightmare with online dating. Could be someone has winked at him and he is bored etc. If you say you have seen him online he will know that you are checking on him as you have told him you have deleted your profile. Online dating is a wierd little world - one of which I think I am done!

[sarnieken]

If you confront him on it then you will no doubt open a can of worms on the situation.

he will demand to know why you are checking up on him so I would stronly suggest just saying that your friend was on line and mentioned to you that she saw him on line.

If he gets defensive and accuses you of anything then he is hiding something.

If he has made it clear to you that he sees a future in your relationship then it is only right that he takes himself off the market. Ask him to put himself in your shoes.
If he is ok with you still looking on line for other guys then his values clearly aren't compatible with yours and you need to kick him into touch. (Did you like the subtle rugby reference :))

[MiniN]

Leave his ass, he's not worth it. you're not desperate (i presume), so theres no need to keep seeing someone who obviously waiting for someone else to come along. I reckon you can do sooooooo much better.

[blondie74]

Thank you so much...I asked him 'are you still online' and he said yes. So in other words hes leaving his options open. I finished with him today!

[weeal]

I been through the same thing blondie, even in first 9 months when we were just getting closer n closer, he had still been on several dating sites when i was at work, actively looking up profiles. Some of which were 'adult' sites.
He said he was just looking and nothing further but it ruined my trust and made be check up on him, was a horrible time. We stayed together 2 years but broke up eventually.
Dont put yourself through it.

[Petal~flower]

Men are such *****

[zig_za]

masters?

[legend761]

petal
so are women grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[WendyS]

No. Just ditch him. He obviously isn't 100% happy in his relationship with you, otherwise he would have discontinued with online dating.
So, why settle for somebody who thinks you're second best and is still looking out for someone better?