Internet Explorer will always go to the 'update notification' page if it identifies that an update is available. The only way to stop it doing so is to switch off the automatic check for updates:
Go to Tools > Internet Options
Select the 'Advanced' tab.
Click to remove the check mark alongside 'Automatically check for Internet Explorer updates'
Click 'Apply', then 'OK'.
Far better, switch to a decent web browser. The vast majority of the 'regulars' here on AB's technology section gave up on Internet Explorer ages ago. We nearly all use Firefox:
http://www.mozilla.com/firefox/
Chris