Can this happen?

[cazzrob]

Hi, I recently "found" my husband advertising himself on a dating site where he is working away, obviously he's denied knowing anything about it, all the details/pics were of him. anyway he says he has been a victim of internet fraud and the source came from Nigeria! When confronted, I opened his laptop, typed in the dating website address and lo and behold his email address was already typed in to the page before logging in, also the same thing on his phone internet, he says that the "person" from Nigeria must have done this through this fraud thing, but surely the husband MUST have physically typed his email address in his lap top and phone to this dating site, or am I wrong? Thanks in advance.x.

[ChuckFickens]

No you're not wrong...

[redcrx]

you are right, theres no way it would automatically know your husbands email unless already typed in previous to that

[cazzrob]

Thanks guys, Im not much of a computer buff, but Im not as green as Im cabbage looking either! Thanks again guys, you've been a great help.x.

[RATTER15]

Who know what these Nigerians are up to but it doesn't sound like a money making Nigerian scam to me.

I don't think you want to hear my opinion. :-(

[jno]

the new Nigerian scam - blaming Nigerians for everything. Sounds like you've got him bang to rights.

[Sqad]

What a "nutcase" providing pictures of himself on a website, the majority of women will "bite" without pictures.

On second thoughts..........a philanderer would never do that.............????

[cazzrob]

RATTER I would love to know what you think. Im not naive to think scamming does not go on, but not when its already in the phone and laptop. Its come out since that he did the same to first wife, I only found out since confronting him, so history has repeated itself. I know this sounds like it should be in relationships, but it was more about the email addy on phone and laptop. Thanks guys, youre opinions are invaluable.x.

[ummmm]

I think first of all you need to get him to tell you the truth...

[RATTER15]

cazzrob, I was just avoiding spelling it out to you, I think others have done that now.

You know the truth for sure, its staring you in the face.

Just out of interest, how come you were on the site to find him in the first place?

[Carakeel]

I agree with ummmm here! He needs to stand up and be honest about all this. There is no way this is some "Nigerian scam"! So sorry you are having to go through this, cazzrob! A relationship without trust is at best always going to be a very difficult one. Hopefully he will admit the truth and you two can work on rebuilding yours. He has obviously been a right fool and jeopardised your marriage for a bit of fun. Very, very stupid indeed! Hugs to you!

[ummmm]

RATTER - unless you clear your browsing history it remembers where you have been. So is cazzrob typed in 'D' and 'dating express' came up....follow it from there.

[cazzrob]

I knew the answer anyway RATTER, just wanted to see if he's continue making me look stupid, How I found out? I was paying for something on his PAYPAL account, and one of the payments were pending, so I just clicked on investigate payment, and the past 3 months payments came up, and 3 of them was something Id never heard of, so I typed it into the search engine and discovered it was a chat/dating site! Always get caught in the end!

[cazzrob]

Thanks again everyone, I have kicked him into touch! I cant stand being lied to and game him every op to come clean, but he continued digging his hole a bit deeper. Trust is hard to gain and easy to lose.

[DB_7]

OOOPS !! nah it will store a cookie on the local computer to rememeber where his details lol. sorry

[carmalee]

cazzrob - hope things get better for you - sounds as though you've got your head screwed on the right way though -

[cazzrob]

I think so too Carmalee, we havnt even been married a year yet! But Im not prepared to forgive and spend the rest of my life wondering what my husband is up to, Im worth more than that, and his loss will be someone else's gain (eventually!)

[stokemaveric]

guilty as charged........get rid......

[cazzrob]

I have SM, just wanted to prove he is still lying. makes me so angry. Wud love to mark you all best answer.x. Thanx.x.

[AlBags]

NOT deleting cookies has dropped him in a big turd : (

[boxtops]

well done cazzrob (is he the rob in your name...?)