Am I Being Oversensitive...?
Right, I'm well aware that 'Facebook problems' come across as a bit childish and pathetic, but this is really bothering me, so I wanted to ask for your opinions.
I have a friend, a male friend, who I have known for nearly ten years. I'll be completely honest, we did have a bit of a 'fling' years ago, but nothing more than a bit of fun between friends.
Anyway, he has moved away and we've both moved on, but we still keep in contact via Facebook. He has a girlfriend, I have a husband, yet he'll randomly send me 'inappropriate' messages, which I have never ever responded to, other than to tell him to behave himself and maybe send them to his girlfriend instead. He recently sent me a...er... video from his phone, though I think that's all I need to say for you to understand what kind of video it was, and I responded in the same way as I have to his messages. In fact, I told him if he sent me anything like it again, I would forward it on to his partner. I really have no interest in that kind of thing.
So, since then he has gone out of his way to shoot me down, on both mine, his, and other people's statuses. Nothing specific, but general nastiness/rudeness/and trying to make me look like an idiot.
I dared to have an opinion on something today, and he went all out and posted comment after comment saying how I didn't know what I was on about, how I was a pessimist, and how he was "sick of my negativity"... despite it being the first thing I had commented on. He quite often refers to me publicly as his "facebook friend", and just the other day said via a comment on a status we had both been commenting on "well we only know each other through Facebook"... which is obviously not the case.
He will then send me a private message saying he's sorry but he doesn't want to upset his girlfriend, who wouldn't be happy if she knew we'd 'been together' - even though it was years and years before they'd even met.
Am I being stupid, or am I right to be a bit hurt that he seems to be knocking me down at any given opportunity, just to prove something to his girlfriend, who I don't even know.