Why Is Love So Confusing? Details Below :l

[Ella441]

So theres this guy I've fancied for a bit of time now. And there's this girl the popular girl, the girl all the guys seem to like even though no body thinks she's pretty. Lets just say she's one of those nasty teenage girls. Anyways he keeps flirting with me on and off like hot and cold behaviour. Two days he was flirting with me a bit of contact and just chilling together. and then the next day he just pretends nothing happened but then the next day hes flirting again. I'm so sick of it. I want to just forget about him but I can't. Everytime we get closer and start o go somewhere that girl just comes in and takes him a way from me. She backstabes him, ditches him for his enemies and laughs at his big ears but he still does everything for her even her homewrok and then she leaves. He laughs at her jookes that aren't funny and it's just so annoying. Its half way through the year and shes been out with atleast 12 guys. At the begining of the year when they just met they went out for a day before she cheated on him. When will he wake up and realize whos really there? Should I get over him? If I should how do I? Any advice. What should I do bout this girl? Should I fight for him or is it about time to look else where. (keep in mind there has been a few times I tried getting over him but then he starts flirting again and i fall for him all over again. Please no hate or nasty comments. If you read all this then bless your heart

[ukbod2015]

I would say you are well off away from the lot of them. They have all the emotional stability of a goldfish with Alzheimer's. They can drain your purpose and sap your character. My advice detach and find real friends.

[Ella441]

Hey,nah there not exactly my friends i have other people who are great to me x

[ukbod2015]

A simple axiom for life, where possible, never do anything you don't enjoy.

[Mosaic]

This is a phenomenon you will meet repeatedly in life. Males find it difficult to resist women who flirt and especially women who put out. Men do not, by and large, see the bigger picture, and are content to go along with the situation. Your decision is whether you want to use your valuable human energy trying to distract someone away from something he doesn't want to be distracted away from, or just go elesewhere and do something that makes you happy. And when you're forty, there'll still be a woman at work or in your social groups who goes all giggly and available when blokes are around.

[Cloverjo]

I think mosaic has it. Just forget both of them.

[1ozzy]

//Why Is Love So Confusing?//

It wouldn't be "love" if it wasn't.

Just one of the emotions that can turn you inside out.