Didnt Think It Possible

[Jordyboy9]

i did not think it possible to take an intense dislike to someone i have never met,only on answer bank and years ago on sports anwerbank did we correspond,i never agreed with anything that was said and they were the same with me,i have given this some thought and now i am wondering what kind of person does this make me to dislike someone that i have never met face to face maybe if i did i would like herdoes this make me a bad person or just weird,i tried for a while to forgive and forget but found i just couldnt

[ummmm]

No...there are people on the internet I've never met and I don't like them. I think it's quite normal.

[Sqad]

LOL....it happens to me all the time, developing an intense dislike (hatred) for somebody i have never met.
It's normal .isn't it?

[Islay]

I dislike people intensely too and I have met a couple of them!

[Arksided]

Must happen to most at some point surely, I just ignore them.

[Neveracrossword]

Jordyboy, what you're feeling is normal, very normal. It's equally normal to take an instant liking to someone that you've met only on Answerbank.

[Sqad]

Funnily enough Jordy.....come to think of it, i never hated, disliked intensely until i came onto AB.

[ummmm]

Sometimes it's hard to ignore. It's easy to not respond but not to completely ignore.

[Jackdaw33]

Four times during my life I have met people to whom I have taken an immediate intense dislike on introduction. I can't explain it, it just happens

[jackthehat]

This is a bit of a dog/bone situation, isn't it, Jordyboy?

I really don't care what you think of me and don't quite see why you need to regularly comment on it.
Find something else to occupy your time rather than pondering on the whys and wherefores.....

[kvalidir]

With people on the net I've never met, I generally feel pretty middle of the road about most people, however some people I love to bits and would do anything for and some people I could cheerfully shoot in the face. I think what you feel is completely normal :)

[bhg481]

Maybe it's the way they disagreed with you ie, their attitude, rather than just disagreeing. I agree with some on here and disagree with others. I don't necessarily dislike the ones that I disagree with, it depends on their attitude.

[Sqad]

bhg...it is more than that...much more than that. Some ABers make an attempt to "put you down" at every opportunity, criticise your posts and try to undermine your answers and opinions.
These are the ones that are dangerous and deservedly acquire the hate that is bestowed upon them.
To make it worse, they know who they are and set out to accentuate their cunning ways.

[johnny.5]

wow can you feel the love in here ??

love and peace
love and peace

[Mamyalynne]

There will always be personality clashes in any mixed group.

Hatred and dislike take up too much energy.

[Sipowicz]

[ummmm]

Sqad - do you actually notice when your grievances have been listened to?

[Sqad]

ummmm.....rephrase that question as i do not know what you are talking about.

[Arksided]

Does anyone ;-)

[ummmm]

You told me that something I said to you a few times peed you off so I haven't said it since. Despite not agreeing with you on many things my aim is not to pee you off on purpose.

[Sqad]

ummmm....Ah! thanks (I think)