msn and teens what to do ?????

[sweetsleeps]

ok when i was younger we didnt have this so when growing 12 to 16 my interest in boys was one on one etc with msn you have a whole new ball game and with the slang kids use a young lad could be taken the wrong way by a parent who doesnt know him example s*ck my balls does not mean he wants them to do that its another way of saying fcuk off which is picked up from south park also retard which is your being dumb sick meand cool etc etc so if the school was to get involved and the police surely they would see its a 13 year old messing around and not something alot worse really not sure what to think i just know the lad is just messing around and doesnt mean it the way it looks to another person who doesnt know him!!!!! beleave mean i can see both sides of this.

[northernmonkey]

You clearly have concerns about his language mainly online, and if you are happy to sit down & speak to him pointing out his mistakes which he may have some understanding about or he may be unaware of any wrong doing and maybe tell him you will let him have another chance providing things he's done wrong stop and you will stop him using computer, if you see him ignoring you ect. Enable chat logger to check up if you wanted to check up what hes saying online and this is adviseable besides everything due to age and using MSN and the tv program needs to get stopped from bein watched also if its cause of all this

[sweetsleeps]

okay the programs arent an issue he doesnt realy watch them this is school playground stuff if you get what i mean this is how they chat to each other he does understand what he has said and was truely upset that it has been taken the wrong way and we have a very close open relationship ok the mum of the girl in qeustion thought i was going to be a gobby cow who didnt give a Sugar. he realy isnt like that on his msn he had a coment next to his name ive got wood which he saw in a film at a mates when i asked him what it ment trying not to laugh he said not sure so i told him he blushed saw the funny side and took it off i have every confidence in him and had already warned him to be carefull as things could be taken the wrong way. he said it was messing around and itll be fine he has lernt the hard way

[northernmonkey]

Is sad but young primary school kids are starting young from what happens at home and then sadly once 13 just have no respect, and dont care how they speak and have no respect and sadly not even any self respect but your son can only try and ignore really