Met Very Beautiful Waitress Girl! Not Sure If She Likes Me, If She Does How Should I Win Her Heart?

[Octa]

20 year old guy here with very little experience with women.
In short:
This morning i was at a restaurant eating with a friend, this girl who is a waitress was really nice to customers like they should be, but i noticed that she made lots of sneaky stares at me, i didn't stare at her all that much, and i feel like she didn't want me to see her watching me, maybe because she is shy or interested in me.
OR maybe she actually wanted me to watch her more, and because i was with my friend i didn't really realize the situation. My friend agreed that the girl did look at me a lot and smiled.
She is very beautiful and i'm tired of being a lone wolf for such a long time, i do live quite near the restaurant so i definitely could see her again if i go there to eat.
So i'm not sure if i'm just hallucinating or dreaming about her liking me but i definitely feel like there was something there, i do not have any pickup lines of my own and i'm not sure how i could win her heart.

She's so pretty and has nice body, i don't want to throw away this treasure.

[thesshhh]

Many years ago, my brother got a similar impression from a waitress serving him. So, when he'd finished his meal and she asked if there was anything else she could get him, he very smoothly said "Yes, your phone number would be nice". And she gave it to him. Women like men who show confidence and bravado

[ll_billym]

First off don't think of her as a 'treasure' as it's a mindset that says she's more valuable than you are, she's the treasure and you are the poor treasure hunter and that's not a great start.

I'm sure she's lovely but concentrate on your own value - you are the prize to be won, be that having a great idea for a day out, witty jokes, interesting conversation, a knowledge of local history, a fine collection of vintage bicycle clips, whatever you are good at my friend.

The mindset here is... Yes she looks nice but is she worthy of your future attention and time...? You think she might be but are not yet sure as you currently know nothing about her... It's up to her to convince you.

So on to the mechanics, you said you thought she was looking at you - well just bring that up then next time you are in there and see what she says.. "I'm pretty sure you've been trying to catch my eye and it got me wondering about whether we'd enjoy each other's company on a day out..." **remember to smile** "I think we would..." and leave that hanging. No question, no rejection, no embarrassment if she says she has a boyfriend - you stated the truth and you'll be back in for a coffee again the next day.

Oh and have an idea of what if she shows interest. Good luck.