Bobbi - // AH no one can make you do anything you don’t want to , what kind of entertainment did you have at your AI? As I said I was in a 5 star and the compère there still asked for audience participation bat times, made worse for us because it was on the southern most tip of the island with not much else around although we did take taxis to places like Lindos etc //
I have stayed in hotels where a compere of DJ has tried to get people 'involved'.
I am a DJ, and I have done the same thing at parties.
These people are professional, as am I, and I assure you that body language indicates if a guest wishes to be involved or not. If they do not, then I, and any professional, would simply move on to someone else - there is no fun in embarrassing someone who doesn't wish to take part.
When I am in an audience, I simply avoid eye contact with the host, that's all it takes.