I don't think our kids mean to frighten the living daylights out of us, it's just that as they havn't been parents yet they really don't know how much we worry. My daughter is nearly 20 and just finished her gap year. She spent 5 months in the French Alps doing the ski season as a chalet girl last winter. She phoned on her mobile to say "Hey Mum, I'm on top of a mountain, strapped to a bloke with a parachute and our skis on. We're about to jump off and parachute then ski to the bottom!" I just said "phone back when you get down safely!!" Then her and a friend spent 3 months in Thailand, Australia, New Zealand and Fiji. In NZ she went white water rafting, Black water rafting, Canyon jumping (bungee jumping) and sky diving. She brought home videos of it all and I'm so proud of her. She has grown up a lot and I just hope she is ready to settle back to studying now she has gone off this week to university.