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Boyfriends Weird Habit...
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Hello! There's one thing that has been bothering me for a while... My boyfriend does this thing that makes me as an anxious person very uncomfortable.
For example: he might suddenly put me against the wall and start strangeling me. Literally putting hes hands on my neck and presses. I know that he could never hurt me, but this thing... sudden " violent" things that he does makes me really anxious and panic like.
I personally don't like to been hold the way that I can't literally get away, strangelt, having objekts like baseball bats next to my face like he's about to hit me etc.
I don't know if this is some kind of sexual thing for him, but it's really not fine for me and I have told him that.
Sorry for the long intro. Now the actual question:
What is the line between normal " playful" actions and actual assault? I don't know what to do.
For example: he might suddenly put me against the wall and start strangeling me. Literally putting hes hands on my neck and presses. I know that he could never hurt me, but this thing... sudden " violent" things that he does makes me really anxious and panic like.
I personally don't like to been hold the way that I can't literally get away, strangelt, having objekts like baseball bats next to my face like he's about to hit me etc.
I don't know if this is some kind of sexual thing for him, but it's really not fine for me and I have told him that.
Sorry for the long intro. Now the actual question:
What is the line between normal " playful" actions and actual assault? I don't know what to do.
Answers
He is asserting his dominance over you in a physical way. 1/ this is totally unacceptable behaviour, showing no respect for your person. 2/this may well be the thin end of the wedge so to speak. He has very violent tendencies, that are at the moment suppressed, but could easily get worse causing you serious harm. 3/ Gradually fade him out, decreasing your time...
23:32 Sun 01st Nov 2015
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