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Thanks everyone for your good wishes.
Quinnie My husband is now in a nursing home was sent there for end of life care on the 13th November, it is an excellent home with very good care & possibly due to it being far more peaceful than hospital he seems reasonably content most days & is far more lucid & able to converse with me for a while.
I spent 2 hrs with him yesterday & then drove home & went to my very good friend & neighbour for lunch.
Hope you are still keeping well. x