ChatterBank7 mins ago
The First Time
In the light of a recent report that teenagers are engaging in 'daisy-chaining', that a 13 year old Florida girl is pregnant and seeking an abortion and an earlier question here from a 32 year old virgin, how old were you when you lost your virginity and was it a regrettable experience?
I know it's a very personal question, but it's not meant to be offensive and our straw poll is anonymous.
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'Daisy chain' is used in a sexual context either as formation involving multiple participants lying in a circle, with each person putting their mouth to the genitals of the next person in the chain or a group of men penetrating each other anally in a chain formation.
And the report I mentioned is here;
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4493353.stm
I was 17, and desperate to "get it over with", largely due to peer group and media pressure - it became something of a bigger issue than it actually should have been, but it was with someone I had been with for a few months, so we got down to it when we both felt right about it....all over too quickly due to general enthusiasm & expectation on both parts, but got much better with practice! We were together for five very happy years, which is probably a long time for teenagers these days?
Being 15 years older now and far more wordly wise I look back and think "what was the pressure?" but (without wishing to sound like an old duffer) at that age it can be portrayed as pretty much the be-all and end-all. My view now is that you shouldn't give a care about how old you are, just make sure its with someone you trust, you take precautions, its legal, and most importantly that you enjoy it. Here endeth the lesson!