advice pls!!

[blond_law]

Me and my ex finished 4 years ago after 5 yrs 2gether, although for 2 of them years we met up regularly and did the usual sleep together crap with him telling me we'd be back together. Anyway while this was happening he met someone else and completely dismissed me for this girl. However we sometimes drink in the same place and my sister is dating my exes cousin so there has been opportunities since where we have seen each other. When this happens my ex normally comes to talk to me to either reminisce about old times we had or to introduce me to his new bird who i've met many times before.he also kept texting and ringing me so i changed my number and told him to concentrate on his new girl rather than live in the past also i had a feeling it was an ego thing for him and i weren't gonna be his play thing. Anyway last night i had to pick my sis and her boyf up from the pub and my ex was there. We haven't spoken now for at least 6 months or seen each other. When i arrived he took 1 look at me and stormed out leaving his girlf there. Then text my sis boyf saying 'f**k u. U sold me out coz she is up here' meaning me. pls can someone tell me their views on what his problem is. As i said i haven't bothered with him in months and i'm quite shocked at how he's reacted to seeing me bearing in mind he's living with his girl and they've been together now for nearly 2 years. he was the one that treated me badly and yet is making out i'm the b*tch?? MEN!!!!

[redcrx]

ah ignore him. Let your sisters boyfriend sort it out as its obviosuly something between them two. Im sure his girlfriend will have some words for him too.

Youve managed to move on with your life by the sound of it, dont get caught up in his silly games again.

[david small]

He is a creep, have nothing to do with him at your peril.

[jno]

redcrx is right. Why do you care about what he thinks? Let him sort himself out with his current girl (or not). He's got problems; you don't have to solve them. You're even allowed to feel a bit smug that he's got problems and you haven't, and that you can make him fly off the handle just by walking through the door!

[blond_law]

it just makes me so mad coz i haven't done anythng to him. You're right i shouldn't worry what he or anyone thinks but i hate it when people that don't really know me have listened to his victim stories about me and believe him. He used and abused our relationship for so long and now people think it was all to do with me. Another prob is that i have been invited on a sunday bender with my sis, her boyf and her boyf's brother (another cousin of my ex) and i don't know whether to go or not coz its up the same pub where he will be and i don't want any trouble but then part of me don't want to hide away either.

[Octavius]

He sounds like a complete child. Ignore him and let him sort out his own troubles.

[girl_lesbian]

Definatly go out to the pub. Why should you sit at home while your friends are out enjoing themselves and while your ex is out enjoying himself? Especialy as you have done nothing wrong. Go to the pub, ignore him and have a fab time. Don't give this silly man a second thought and don't base any of your choices/ decisions on him! x x x