If You Had A Twin, But Didn't Realise...
Family Life0 min ago
Me and my ex finished 4 years ago after 5 yrs 2gether, although for 2 of them years we met up regularly and did the usual sleep together crap with him telling me we'd be back together. Anyway while this was happening he met someone else and completely dismissed me for this girl. However we sometimes drink in the same place and my sister is dating my exes cousin so there has been opportunities since where we have seen each other. When this happens my ex normally comes to talk to me to either reminisce about old times we had or to introduce me to his new bird who i've met many times before.he also kept texting and ringing me so i changed my number and told him to concentrate on his new girl rather than live in the past also i had a feeling it was an ego thing for him and i weren't gonna be his play thing. Anyway last night i had to pick my sis and her boyf up from the pub and my ex was there. We haven't spoken now for at least 6 months or seen each other. When i arrived he took 1 look at me and stormed out leaving his girlf there. Then text my sis boyf saying 'f**k u. U sold me out coz she is up here' meaning me. pls can someone tell me their views on what his problem is. As i said i haven't bothered with him in months and i'm quite shocked at how he's reacted to seeing me bearing in mind he's living with his girl and they've been together now for nearly 2 years. he was the one that treated me badly and yet is making out i'm the b*tch?? MEN!!!!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.it just makes me so mad coz i haven't done anythng to him. You're right i shouldn't worry what he or anyone thinks but i hate it when people that don't really know me have listened to his victim stories about me and believe him. He used and abused our relationship for so long and now people think it was all to do with me. Another prob is that i have been invited on a sunday bender with my sis, her boyf and her boyf's brother (another cousin of my ex) and i don't know whether to go or not coz its up the same pub where he will be and i don't want any trouble but then part of me don't want to hide away either.