'Fraid your other half is mistaken - the majority of birds you see feeding at the table every day will indeed be the same ones - very often at much the same time each day - and they will be nesting locally and scouting a fairly small area several times a day food. Virtually all birds are territorial up to a point, especiallly when food is scarce, even choosing a favourite perch for their resting periods and noisily chasing away any greedy newcomers to their "patch". Although I've never yet seen it, my neighbours insist that very early many mornings, our garden is still visited by the same heron from the local park, that comes to inspect the pond briefly for the fish that USED to live in it several years ago...!! If you think about it, the same-looking single robin, or distinctive same-coloured huge wood-pigeon day after day can't realistically be part of a set of identical unconnected "travellers"...!! Happy bird-watching...