hope peopleare awake,,,,need help

[miss_me]

same old same old, but please be kind cuz i'm really upset and know what i should do. My bloke is being a tw^t really, in basic terms. i'm only 21 and he is 39. I know i;m young but i do love him - please domt dismiss ths cuz of mmy age. (or the fact i'm hammered....!) I lend him a lot of money, of which i dont really have, cuz hehasnt been working althogh he is now. I took out a bank loan so that i could pay some stuff off him. Anyway, it not really that, its that todau he said i was childish because i wanted to talk through some stuff, i dont thing that is childish - i thought that communication was a key thing in r'ships. My friends, not all have even met him, tll me to finish with him but i love him. When its good its really good but when its bad its terrible. I'm not happy at the moment i know isnt a good sign.i'm meeting him tomoroow,i feel he needs to concentrate on himself and his kids for a bit. Surely if i love him as much as i thing and him me then all will work out -whether it be now or a couple of weeks/months time???

[-GrimReaper-]

dump him for me ...im 28

[miss_me]

:oP def a better age - i just feel really pathetic as i worry in case no one else loves me the way he does

[miss_me]

i like to help peoplr, i need to too. Like Freud suggests - it al relates to my childhood - i couldnt/cant help ,my dad and try to compensate for that in other ways

[purplelily]

I have a lot of respect for you - I'd personally find it too difficult to be with a man who has children with another woman - and I think you should find the respect you have for yourself and decide whether you really want to be with this man. Don't worry that 'no-one else will love you the way he does'. Life's too short for us to be with people who don't make us happy. Think about why your friends feel that this man isn't good enough for you, and then decide what advice you'd give to a friend who was in your situation. Hope you find the answers you need. xx.

[bobtheturkey]

the problem with grim reaper is he would pretend to be a different person every day :)

[-GrimReaper-]

Hi Bob/a.sausepan/nursecarla/......................

[spk]

dont waste your time on him pet you are way too young and have your whole life ahead of you. Dump him you are much better off being alone than being in a relationship and being miserable. Love doesnt make it all ok look after yourself and be a bit more selfish. Good luck xx

[bobtheturkey]

i do all my bantering in this name zeus why change it? you think im my sister that's your view im not explaining it i cant be bothered according to you im everyone from mother Theresa to ida amin , i used to like you as you were funny witty etc but then you stopped being the centre of attention and the toys came out the pram, i dont care what people think of me on here zeus i deal in planet real life you should too, i don't have to change my name i think you are a bit of a dick there see no name change? :) its a nice day enjoy the sun and dont take it so serious :)

[-GrimReaper-]

i get bored with names. thats why i change them. i dont do aliases. my names follow on not run paralel

[-GrimReaper-]

Im not Agnt Smith by the way.