My Husbands Penis Is Too Big To The Point Where It's Actually Quite Uncomfortable Sometimes When We Have Sex, What Can I Do To Make Sex Less Painful On My Part?

ShilohJane | 18:02 Tue 29th Oct 2013 | Family & Relationships

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His penis is quite wide and long and I know it's said "bigger is better" but that's not necessarily the case haha cause I'm quite a petite person at 5'2" which doesn't make it any easier! We've been together for 5 years now and I initially thought I'd get used to it, Don't get me wrong I love him to death and sex is extremely enjoyable a lot of the time but there are still times when I end up feeling super sore and I'm unable to walk properly for up to 2 days! Any suggestions on what to do?

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andy-hughes

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OK, if intercourse is hurting you, it is NOT because your husband's penis is too big - your vagina is soon going to expand enough to allow a baby to pass through, so it's not likely to draw the line at a penis, no matter how big it feels or looks. Basically, you are not 'ready' for him when intercourse starts. You need LOTS of foreplay, and you need to be very relaxed...

21:15 Tue 29th Oct 2013

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DTCwordfan

Read through those butterfly glasses, caribeing, an you will be okay.
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Caribeing

ferfew no we don't all post our personal business just for sensationalism.

jd_1984

I really wish my wife hadnt come on here...!!!!!!

Serious note, this is a genuine problem for some couples and ofcourse you will get a proportion of sniggers and innuendo on this site. Some of the advice thus far is good.
Not to blow ones trumpet but I have had this problem myself with a couple of partners. I think it depends on the individuals concerned. I have found patience, honesty, variety and lubrication is the key. If you love each other you will overcome this. Sex is an important aspect of any relationship and you say yourself it is super enjoyable most of the time. Trial and error and communication, you will be fine. I think as males we can get pre-occupied with "size" but it can be a hindrance.

WELSHYORKIE

Not to blow ones trumpet? - more like a bloody trombone in this case - BJs must be a bit of a mouthful....

joko

what bit hurts? the outer area, through friction? or the cervix through pressure

it may be that you are swollen inside due to hormones etc

lcg

it could be that your husband is bumping into the neck of your cervix during sex and this is causing the pain. as said before, plenty of lube, plenty of foreplay and find a favourite position where you are both happy. job done......x

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