Relationship Boundaries

[salisbury]

Hi just another quick update, I have decided to move on and have packed all her belongings up to post tonight, I will also change my number.

Could somebody just answer me this....I am 23 she is 21, we were together 3 years but I now feel like she cant have ever loved me if she is jumping on the next lad who asks her.

It makes me feel physically sick and really low about myself. Does this show a lack of respect ?

She saisd she wanted to meet me to talk things thru and exchange belongings and kept hinting that she would want me back.....but i think Iinstead of meeting her and gettin my head messed again, I will post them to her

[flipflop104]

She probably loved you to start with - I've been with exes and loved them to start with and the more I've got to know them, I've lost interest/fallen out of love.

Remember the 12/18months are exciting and exhilirating but after that period you really start to get to know each other and that's when things and the way you/the other person may change how you feel.

Def post her things and cut all contact - best way, I think.

[redcrx]

Good for you, youre protecting yourself, post her stuff and dont see her.

Im sure she loved you but as flipflop said people do fall out of love slowly at times. Some dont even realise itshappeneing until its too late to change.

Youre both young and at that age you change a lot of a short space of time. Neither of you will be the same as you were 3 years ago and sometimes this is when people grow apart.

Time to move on and see where life goes.

[purpose]

I agree with the others.

She probably did love you an awful lot at one stage, but sadly that love did not last or she would not have treated you the way she has.

What you are doing (by changing your number and posting her things) is SUCH a positive step, so well done.

The issue is obviously hers, but you are the one who got hurt. It's not fair, but unfortunately these things happen.

You are doing the right thing. Good luck with moving on :0)

[~posy-jo~]

u r doing the right thing. don't meet up with her just post her things and move on. u sound like a really nice bloke and i no it sounds like a cliche but there will be someone out there who will love u just as much as u love them. please try not to feel cr@p it is her loss not yours. i hope everythng works out for u xXx