Hi there :) Try going to a hair dresser, hair stylist what ever you can manage and they can give you your best options. For the 'Pasty Ab Fab' look, try putting curlers in the front section of your hair after a shower and leave them in until you need your hair style. you will need at least 3 hours for thin hair and at least 5 hours for thick hair. Then, carefully take out the curlers and brush your hair upwards and pin down the bits at the end of your loop ( back of your head.) Spray your hair with hair spray, strong hold preffably if your hair is thick, and then tie up your hair or leave it flowing. Another good look for you would be a german french plait. I hope this helped, sorry if it didn't. All the best :)