Is This Normal Behavior From A Man To A Child

[dieseldick]

i really need opinions on this. today i left ex wife off at indian suermarket , i was sitting in car with our 7 yr old daughter, she said to me " daddy i dont like go in that shop with mummy" i asked her why, she said on a couple / few occasions he said to her " i am your daddy " " i am going to take you away " she said he was talking as if joking, i asked did he try touch you or come over to you she said yes once he came near her tried to pet her head but she squeezed mums arm and held onto mummy. i asked ex wife about this man when she came out but she said in " oh he is only joking "

in my view this is not normal, i would never say this to a child ven as a joke, my ex wife is an absolute discrace, i have had social services out twice in last year about her leaving my child out at night playing in street alone when she was away to work.

cut a long story short, i want go see this person tomorrow , am i wrong, is my kid telling it wrong, is my ex wife really that much of an idiot to let a total stranger sy things like that to my child, i cant sleep for thinking about this person, grooming ?

thats why i want advice , i need to know am i wrong or not, i want to go in there and do something. i need to hear views. this is not normal , to me its not normal talk / behavior,

what would you do

[EDDIE51]

We have seen posts from you on this subject before and the advice is the same. You need to take responsibility for your child and get custody. Yes I know there are big problems with not being able to work etc, but your daughters well being is far more important than that! Even living with you on benefits is better for your child than being left where she is. I accept it is a hard choice but if you really want to be certain that your child has the best possible life it really needs to be done.