Always tell the truth don't you think?

[PinkFizz]

Ages ago I posted on here that I was having real trouble having an org**m with my b/f and I had no idea why.I had even started to fake it so as not to upset him.Well not as good as I thought as last night he asked me why had I gone off sex and did I not fancy him anymore.!Apparently he had thought for weeks that I didn't want him in that way anymore and was going thru the motions.I felt terrible and had to explain that it was me and not him,and that I was just overworked/stressed at the mo.

So to all of you who told me not to fake it and talk to him - you were right,as usual!

[SaxyJag]

Probably now you can discuss the problem together and you'll find him more supportive than you could possibly imagine. I've been with my bloke for nearly 27 years now, and we've found honesty always to be the best policy. It engenders trust, and then there's nothing quite as comforting as knowing you can go home and talk your problems through with someone you can trust.

[raysparx]

Hi pink,

at least it is in the open now,I live by the philosophy that if you never lie,you don't need a good memory,cos one lie leads to another and in the end you can't tell the truth from the lie,bet you feel better now,things will start to improve again,and it is different I think for women regarding sex, cos when your a young bloke it's anywhere,antime anyplace, but for you ladies you are a bit more normal than us animals,hope things go well for you both, Take care, Ray xx

Also pink, isn't it nice sometimes,just to have a cuddle and drift off to sleep,I think that is a lovely feeling.

[PinkFizz]

I totally agree.I just didn't know how to broach the subject without denting his male pride.But he then said lastnight that I had an awful lot on my plate,and today he txt me at work to say that until I feel right he is happy to settle for lots of kissses and cuddles,which nearly had me in tears as he isnt a soppy guy at all.x

[Pippa68]

Good to hear, PinkFizz (about you having a chat, not ABers being right as usual ;o)

Not sure if I replied on your first post (was it removed?) but I will say now that hubby and I have always managed to chat quite openly about nookie..he knows full well that I don't 'O' all the time, he also knows that it doesn't always matter..and that 'not feeling like it' is ok too..

Hope it continues for you ~ and that now the pressure is off, both of you will soon be back to 'normal' :o)

[beema]

Hi Pink Fizz

I never used to have a Orga**m during sex until I started drinking a daily glass of Whey Protein Isolate (from the health shop) as part of a fitness regime i was on. I went from zero to multiple Os. Also strenghening the pelvic muscles using a pelvic toner will add extra intensity for both of you.

[raysparx]

Hey beema,

does it work for blokes? cos my poor old todger takes time to refill, it would be great to have a loaded cannon at the ready!!!!!

[Pippa68]

Hey how's it hangin tripod? :o)

[raysparx]

Hi pippa, on the slack side,must be the weather!!! xx

[Pippa68]

Awwww and there was me thinking the the summer weather did marvellous things to todgers!

Make a splint for him :o)

[raysparx]

Don't get me wrong pippa,it is still massive, well if i measure it 3 times then multiply by 4 anyway!!!!

[raysparx]

Sorry pink,taking over your question,apologies to you. xx

[dilf]

ha ha ha what are you lot like, women having orgasms indeed. you'll be telling me next that there is such a thing as a g spot - yeah right and the loch ness monster is alive and kicking

its scientificaly proven that it would take nearly twenty minutes of lovemaking to bring a woman to the point of orgasm , what man could manage that.

[PinkFizz]

God you lot make me laugh!! lol I have this image Ray..... think I'll leave it there!

[raysparx]

Hi again pink,

glad you sound a bit chirpier now, hope it's a good image!!!

Question. What is Long and thin, covered in skin,red in parts and goes in tarts?

Rhubarb of course!!!!

[ermadea]

What is not too big neither too small, in fact comes in all sorts of shapes and sizes and hangs out your boxer shorts:

Answer: Your wife or your mother pegging out the washing.