Experience vs virginity.

[Goodsoulette]

Men seem to want us girls to be dynamite in the bedroom (or the car, stairs, pool etc etc) but they don't half get sheepish and annoyed when they realise that any sexual talent you have, results from experience. So what exactly do you guys want??

Why does it wind you lot up so much that a woman might possibly have been intimate with erhem 1 or 2 other guys or girls?

[dot.hawkes]

well i never called it experience i called it practise, and i could give a few more lessons probably,( heehee)

[turboped]

Your going out with the wrong men.

[loopyc]

ooooh you minx dothawkes!!!!! tell them you use a manual next time men like to think they are your one and only never mind the other 1 or 2ish!!!

[rugeleyboy]

i prefered experience to innocence , at the time i thought a virgin was the way to go,but i think women offer more once they realise what they want aswell!!

no doubt it's the same for women,you much prefer a man who knows what buttons to press??

[miffy63]

The secret is to appear to be a little 'unknowing' about sexual matters but then gradually introduce a few moves in. Let men think they bring out the sexy you, they fall for it every time!

[rugeleyboy]

just how many times are you talking miffy??

[miffy63]

Lets just say I enjoyed myself ALOT when I was younger. Am now in a relationship with one man and all that experience has paid off!

[Morrisonker]

hmm, I've never been with a guy who got jealous about other guys I've been with (or if they did they weren't open about it) but I *hate* being made aware that my man has been with other girls, even when it's obvious. My ex was 6 years older than me and was well known to have been with a good few girls, being in a band and all. Obviously he wasn't innocent but he seemed to make a point of telling me about his previous conquests, even telling me off hand 'oh yeah, I've slept with girls and not known their names...' which as you can imagine made me feel *great*.

My opinion? Don't ask, don't tell. No one wants to think about how many people their lover has been with.