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My Brother Was Next Of Kin For Our Brother He Suffers From Health Issues Our Brother Died Suddenly
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She got the phone number from my bro pauls phone his friend who was a priest told him paul was dead and said he would have to deal with his funeral because his brother her husband was in a care home thanks to the efforts of our friend he managed to get my home phone number this was now a week after he had been found dead this is how i found out about the police asssuming she was now my bros next of kin she witheld the fact his sister was still alive i phoned the police station to ask who i contact to get the post mortem findings and the police station who had his house keys and effects so i could collect them they said i couldnt a liz cosh the next of kins wife was the one who would get them when i tried to explain this woman wasnt a blood relative and had been estranged from my other brother i was told i would have to get a signature from my brother giving me next of kin rights it would have to be witnessed by a member of staff in the home i didnt want to ask my other brother to do this his condition had worsened since being told about pauls death i had no other option but to ask the manager of the home to make sure my brother was fully aware of what he was being asked to do and if he was happy to do it this took a while due to his speach and weak muscles the manager was satisfied he knew and wanted to sign she then guided his hand to sign his name she signed her name as a witness and i signed mine the next day my brother started to hemorage he was rushed to hospital to stop the bleeding losing our bro was to much for him the following day i buried my brother this woman was there i thought i should tell her i was my brothers next of kin now at this she sniggered and said i got the keys for his flat of the police days ago i have emptied the flat taken everything the keys i posted to the housing i asked her where the contents furnishings etc his boxes tec equipment personal items were she said there gone sold i asked her where the boxes with his personal effects where she said there gone to she walked away surely it must be a crime to sell a deceaseds estate and deny his blood relatives his personal family effects yesterday i buried my other brother his wife wasnt there this double loss and the impact of what shes done have devastated me i cant sleep or eat or do anything but think about it all can anyone help me make sure this woman hasnt kept some of my brothers possesions one of his boxes of personal family effects would mean everything to me thank you for reading this regards yvonne cosh
She got the phone number from my bro pauls phone his friend who was a priest told him paul was dead and said he would have to deal with his funeral because his brother her husband was in a care home thanks to the efforts of our friend he managed to get my home phone number this was now a week after he had been found dead this is how i found out about the police asssuming she was now my bros next of kin she witheld the fact his sister was still alive i phoned the police station to ask who i contact to get the post mortem findings and the police station who had his house keys and effects so i could collect them they said i couldnt a liz cosh the next of kins wife was the one who would get them when i tried to explain this woman wasnt a blood relative and had been estranged from my other brother i was told i would have to get a signature from my brother giving me next of kin rights it would have to be witnessed by a member of staff in the home i didnt want to ask my other brother to do this his condition had worsened since being told about pauls death i had no other option but to ask the manager of the home to make sure my brother was fully aware of what he was being asked to do and if he was happy to do it this took a while due to his speach and weak muscles the manager was satisfied he knew and wanted to sign she then guided his hand to sign his name she signed her name as a witness and i signed mine the next day my brother started to hemorage he was rushed to hospital to stop the bleeding losing our bro was to much for him the following day i buried my brother this woman was there i thought i should tell her i was my brothers next of kin now at this she sniggered and said i got the keys for his flat of the police days ago i have emptied the flat taken everything the keys i posted to the housing i asked her where the contents furnishings etc his boxes tec equipment personal items were she said there gone sold i asked her where the boxes with his personal effects where she said there gone to she walked away surely it must be a crime to sell a deceaseds estate and deny his blood relatives his personal family effects yesterday i buried my other brother his wife wasnt there this double loss and the impact of what shes done have devastated me i cant sleep or eat or do anything but think about it all can anyone help me make sure this woman hasnt kept some of my brothers possesions one of his boxes of personal family effects would mean everything to me thank you for reading this regards yvonne cosh
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