how long has it been on the market? if it's been on over a month then I would say they should come down a bit, but if it's only just come on the market I think the sellers are right in asking for the asking price. I live in a desirable area and a house has just sold for 7k over the asking price a week after it was first listed. A good point that has already been raised is how much do you actually want it? and how would you feel if you loose out on it? Sometimes it is worth paying a little extra if you really want something, especially if you have you been looking for a house for a long time. I do feel for you though, buying a house is so stressful and it can be so hard to know what to do