Wedding anniversary!

[electricblue]

Ok today is my 16th wedding anniversary,hubby 'reminded'me last week,but today,,nothing,,,he has always given me a card before work,always,today,,,nothing,i have got him a card but i've put it in the cupboard,thing is shall i remind him ,or say nothing and wait till tomorrow to mention the anniversary
that he missed???personally i'm tempted to say nothing today and make him suffer later!

[tradey]

you never know if he reminded you last week he may have something planned,but if he doesnt ring or when he gets in doesnt say anything them i would ask him is there anything hes forgeot today anyway ill say it happy anni

[LaLaLand2006]

Hi

you don't know for sure he's forgotten, particularly if he reminded you last week. That can be a danger of 'traditions', when something doesn't happen as it always has done, it can be upsetting. He may be planning something later. Personally, I think if it's preying on your mind you should say something today. Otherwise it could just start winding you up and up. I don't prescribe to this idea of not saying anything and then making someone "suffer"... not nice for you all day today worrying about it. Maybe you just need to wait and see what happens later today.

[LaLaLand2006]

PS, yes, Happy Anniversary. And maybe you should buy yourself something just in case!!

[electricblue]

He may remember later and cook me a meal,he's done that on certain dates before,thing is i dont really feel that bothered,is that a bad thing??Or am i just getting too old??

[Supernick]

Errr. You haven't given him a card yet either. Could he be thinking exactly he same thing?

[electricblue]

Oops,thanx for the nice words1

[electricblue]

Mm nick,maybe,,we'll see1

[PinkFizz]

lol Electric - right pair aren't we!!
Did you see him this morning? If so then he has gone off to work without a card either!!
How about texting him saying don't be late home as your cooking a special Anniversay meal then if he has forgotten he will have time to save face!!

[kazza12345]

make him "suffer" for forgetting an anniversary? What kind of realationship do you have? To err is human, to forgive, divine. No wonder he dosent want to remember the anniversary of your marriage if you are the sort of person to make him "suffer" over something so trivial!

[electricblue]

Oh,get out of bed the right side kazza,err,hello,do i really sound as if i'm getting the shackles out??I'm joking,,,
j.o.k.i.n.g,,,!!Pink i reckon the meal will have to wait,we gotta go shopping tonight,lol,

[kazza12345]

yes you really did sound like you were disgruntled! And i just thought "poor man" (most probably because if this kind of scenario happenened in the kazza household it would be me forgetting the card/anniversary and if i did i'd like to think he wouldn't be plotting ways to hold it over me later!) :)

[lia*]

happy 16th anniversary !

maybe he is waiting to see if you remember. i think you should do the right thing and don't wait for him to make the first move.

[lia*]

by the way, if you're planning on serving the xmas cake it goes great with vanilla ice cream.

cheers!

[electricblue]

Honestly kazza,i'm kidding,a card isnt that important,just surprised he didnt remember as he usually does,lia,do u really think my cake will be ok,gonna go get some ice-cream then,lol

[raysparx]

My dear electric,

How couls any man forget being married to such a babe as you, he will come home later, with a massive bulge in his trousers, and say surprise look what i've got for you, and you will think "oh my god he wants a shag" but when he pulls the thing out of his trousers it will make you squeal with delight, It will be a massive, big, enormous Diamond Ring, so relax, anyway you wanted me in bed last night,

But seriously, congratulations, have a lovely evening and enjoy the rest of your time together, take care, Ray xx

[electricblue]

ah ray,you are so sobering,thank you,and for the record,,
I STILL WANT YOU!!!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[raysparx]

your a lovely lady electric,
he won't forget,honest he won't I know us blokes are stupid but wer'e not daft, we all know when we are well off, and anytime electric,you

just say the word and i'll pole vault through your window with my wooly thong on !!!! xxx

[electricblue]

Dont forget the onion ring??????lol

[maggie01]

My husband did the same a couple of weeks ago. I have been married 39 years. He remembered it was our
anniversay coming up but on the day he forgot. I was not going to say anything but I blurted it out in a disagreement. This was mid morning so he went out and came back with flowers and a card. It wasn't quite the same. Say something, I would.

[electricblue]

Know what you mean maggie,i would rather have nothing than have it as an afterthought,i will give him his card tonight,and smile sweetly.