Be Kind To Your Children ...

[sunny-dave]

... for they will be the ones to write your obituary ...

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/newpix/2018/06/05/05/4CEBBDEF00000578-0-image-a-76_1528174458212.jpg

[woofgang]

If that is a statement of true fact then fair enough, why shouldn't they say it?

[BAKERS DOZEN]

I depised both my parents and even though they lived about half a mile away I never visited them. I did not attend their golden wedding party and did not attend either of funerals and I can appreciate how these two siblings feel. I, on the other hand, would not even have wasted the money for the obituary for them. My five brothers and sisters attended and all respected my decision and it has not caused any problems between us.

[237SJ]

I think it would have been dignified to just have said nothing at all. If they are still that bitter about it, they should get therapy

[naomi24]

237SJ, I agree. It can only have been done out of spite.

[woofgang]

Well but maybe that was the therapy they needed. To be able to finally say what happened. Spite can be healthy and healing.

[woofgang]

and dignity can be overrated

[hereIam]

It's been pulled.

[naomi24]

Woofgang, //Spite can be healthy and healing. //

I disagree. I think spite makes people bitter and twisted. Far healthier to move on.

[woofgang]

naomi I think that depends on whether you take your revenge and let it go or whether you hang on to it and let it fester....hopefully this act has enabled the abandoned children to finally let go of their feelings.

[naomi24]

Doubt it. I suspect they'll go on hating her forever.

[woofgang]

then we will agree to disagree