Would You Be Turned Off By A Woman Who Is 37 Years Old And Very Shy?

[babycakes81]

I am dating a 37 year old woman who is VERY shy. It s kind of a turn off honestly. She has no social life and no friends and doesn t go out any place except to work. I We ve only been dating 3 months. We double dated with my friends and she didn t click with them at all. They thought he was weird because she hardly said much and even when she did, not much of what she said made any sense. I haven t spoken to her in a few days and not interested in seeing her anymore.

[Cloverjo]

I'm going to change my mind on what I said earlier.
I am also very shy and find it hard to talk to people. If people weren't prepared to dig a bit, and give me a chance, they wouldn't get to see the real me. Which, I've been told by the few who have, is quite nice really. ;)
Give her another chance and find out what she really loves to do and talk about.

[Canary42]

To answer your question, no, quite the opposite.

If she was such a turn-off, why be so cruel as to proceed beyond the first date ?