why do men

[shazzzz]

why do men say what they think women want to hear and not just be honest and tell the truth

[dot.hawkes]

because they think we all just stood behind the door when the brains were given out,

[turboped]

The truth! You couldn't handle the truth.

[Silversky]

What is the truth then?

[beejaybee]

When asked "Does my bum look big in this?" Would you answer " No, the skirt looks too tight".

[Lonnie]

The truth, you lovely ladies tend to get a bit miffed if we don't agree with you, so for the sake of peace, we say what you want to hear, not all the time, but a good part of it.

[Silversky]

I don't I'd prefer my guy to be honest and tell me what he thinks...

[turboped]

Silversky, you say that now but this is because you think the truth will be what you want to hear. Those men whos brain click into gear before their mouth opens are the ones who tell you what you want to hear regardless, unfortunately my mouth operates (and sometimes my fingers on the keyboard) before my brain and I really suffer for it.

[Silversky]

(personally) The thing is the more you say what you think we want to hear, the more I would think your bullsh*tting.
Therefore the more likely I would be to dump you.

xxx

[bloaterbum]

cus they want a peaceful life .ultimately all that lying ends in tears

[steviep165]

do you really want us to tell you to stop being overbearing, bossy, domineering, naggy and just plain nasty?

oh, and get off the pies!!

[turboped]

So there you are, a catch 22.

If you really deserve something nice to be said you think we are bu115hitting.

Result = heated argument and possible dumping.

If we tell the truth about something you don't want to hear.

Result = heated argument and possible dumping.

No wonder we're confused.

[Backdrifter]

Why do women on AB continually ask questions about things they say men do as though it's only men who do them when in fact women do them too?

[missmuppet]

Slightly off topic but a friends daughter was asked by another friend if her dress made her look fat, to which the daughter replied " no your fat makes you look fat" I thought that was great ☺