Cassa333, did you figure anything out?
Yesterday my son (8yrs) was diagnosed, however I am reluctant to allow a formal diagnosis - when they told me he couldn't join the armed forces it felt like one door was slammed shut on an open brand new life...
I didn't want to be the one that shut that door - it should be his decision when he's older.
How many other jobs won't he be able to have??
He's extremely bright, has friends in a very small cosy school admittedly and loves life.
I know that he will have access to more help later on if I agree to the diagnosis, and they just told me it was my decision, but I'm raising him to make his own own life choices, how can I do that then take one away??
He doesn't know he was even assessed - just a great pm off school playing games, he'd probably be cross as he has autistic friends and sees that they're different which is fine for them as he gets them (ish) - he just doesn't identify the same way for sure...
Btw he would break my heart if he joined the army but like I said, his life, his choice right...?
Help :(