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[nailit]

If you went out on a date (a few drinks or whatever) and the lady offered to pay, would you let her?
Back in the day I wouldn't but now I think that I would. Why not? Equality and all that!
Ive come across some women who seem offended that they are seen as less than able to pay their way. (Feminism I guess)

Been pictures this afternoon with a 'lady friend'...I paid. During one of the trailers she mentioned that she would like to see it. I said so would I...but she'd have to pay.
She said yes of course she would but the underlying feeling was one of shouldn't *I* pay?
Why do we have this idea that the male should pay for everything?

[Tilly2]

Don't be so nosy, Spath!

[nailit]

//Regular cinimar dates..
Ever had intimate moments with this lady?
Do you find her attractive?//

Not just cinema, day trips and stuff as well.
No, Ive not had 'intimate moments' though I could have if I so wished (friends with benefits type thing), but I don't. When we first got together (as friends) she made it clear that she would like a bit more than just friendship, and I made it just as clear that wasn't going to happen.
And yes, she is attractive. But I just cant be bothered anymore with intimate relationships.

[nailit]

//Nails, friends means Dutch.//
My point exactly Dave.

[naomi24]

Nailit, I agree with David. Friends go Dutch.

[spathiphyllum]

True tills lol


Nailit she sounds like she could be something more, if you so wished it. Fair play.

[spathiphyllum]

Dutch???? That means something different to me.

[naomi24]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Going_Dutch

[nailit]

//Nailit, I agree with David. Friends go Dutch. //
I suppose to fair naomi (after thinking about it) she makes it up in other ways, like cooking me meals etc.
Anyway, shes definetly paying the next cinema trip ;-)

[naomi24]

:o)

[nailit]

//Nailit she sounds like she could be something more, if you so wished it.//
I don't...I live the life of a monk nowadays, and happily so!

[ummmm]

If I was just going out as friends it's always 50/50.

[-Talbot-]

By now she's probably under the impression you're gay anyway, nailit.

[nailit]

//By now she's probably under the impression you're gay anyway, nailit//

Ah yes, I remember been a teenager and making juvinile, jokes as well Talbot. You'll grow up to be a man one day :-)

[-Talbot-]

So long as I don't grow up to be a snowflake.

[nailit]

''Snowflake''
Another buzzword.
Well done Talbot. Carry on son!

[pixie374]

I agree, friends just share costs. Sorry, nailit, for some reason I was thinking it was a second "date" type thing xx

[Tilly2]

As I remember, we shared the cost on our 'date', Nails. I really should have splurged and added bacon though. Maybe next time.

[JimF]

Any lady being taken out on a "date" by me doesn't pay for a thing.

[nailit]

//As I remember, we shared the cost on our 'date', Nails. I really should have splurged and added bacon though. Maybe next time//

Yes Tills, and don't forget the mushrooms and tomatoes.....
I require the full oatcake experience on a date in Stoke ;-)