Do you know, and i don't mean any offence here, i had both you two (ummmm and Arky), down as being older than you have recently revealed - i was 18 when i first heard Freddie's vocal chords in action. If i remember rightly, Arky, there was lots of newspaper speculation that Freddie had Aids - something which we fans sincerely hoped wasn't true. Then he admitted it and he died a day later.
As for influencing people; obviously i have played my Queen music throughout the upbringing of my 4 children who, apart from my youngest, used to hate it. They, of course, preferred the poetic lyrics of songs such as Ride On Time, etc, etc :-) However, all 4 now watch anything and everything connected to Queen. I do believe they've all grown up - musically at least :-)