why is it when you watch the D Day memory programme some old soldiers wear some medals n the left brest and others on the right, are the old family ones
The RBL's rules are that medals are normally worn on the left side but "the medals awarded to a deceased Service/exService person may be worn on the right breast by a near relative": https://support.britishlegion.org.uk/ci/fattach/get/3395/0/filename/Members%27+etiquette+-+dress+code+medals+and+badges+-+full+article.pdf
Additionally, no more than 20 people per year are entitled to receive the Merchant Navy Medal (as it used to be called) or the Merchant Navy Medal for Meritorious Service (as it's been called since 2005, when it became part of the state Honours system). See here for details:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Merchant_Navy_Medal_for_Meritorious_Service
I often wish that I had more interest as a child and asked questions.
Too busy just being a child and doing childish things.
Sadly too late now, Dad and Mum long gone.