i dont wish to pester the ED but can someone please tell me, can i unsubscribe form all threads be it my own or just me answering, my phone is going berserk bleeping with emails
You have obvs subscribed to a thread. At the top there is a report button (for the question, not answers) and a subscribe button (or unsubscribe button, if you are subscribed)
Go to the threads, find the "unsubscribe" next to the report button, and click it :)