Danny, leaving Harry aside, seeing action, and perhaps lots of it, does not preclude a person from having a personality which could really annoy a lot of people. Take for example General Patton and General Montgomery.
On his most recent trip to Angola, Prince Harry continues to visit the exact same places that his mother, Princess Diana, visited two decades ago. https://news.amomama.com/173772-prince-harry-meets-same-land-mine-victim.html
But he didn't just walk the same paths that she did, he also had the opportunity to meet the same people who spent time with the People's Princess in 1997.