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Thanks everybody and some great answers here. We took him back on the Monday and the doctor's face was a hoot. He removed it pretty pronto and admitted it shouldn't have been left in. My F-I-L is 84 and doesn't speak up for himself - or question anything which is why he didn't tell us. On Monday's visit they had to put another cannula in (he wasn't eating or drinking much so his fluids were low). The doctor told us to wait in the streaming room while he went to find out where the hospital could carry out an enema to assist FIL's constipation. After half an hour another doctor said she needed to use the room so we moved out into a corridor. FIL and wife got the two chairs -I sat on the floor (I know my place!). Another half hour later I went in search of the doctor (he was very young but extremely good). He was an oncology doctor (he'd come to A&E to see FIL) but was covering two other wards as well. I cannot complain when they are having to work like mental. I told my wife to keep quiet about the cannula to see if they remembered this time. FIL eventually got treated and was back on his feet and happy - they perform real miracles in the NHS. They discharged him (gave the wife discharge sheet and some prescription for yet more drugs). Can anyone guess if they remembered to remove his cannula?! I felt bad testing them like this because it's partly because they are overwhelmed and partly because of the calibre of the communication skills tolerated in the 21st Century. We have learned that it's up to us to help them. Collectively they (NHS staff) have ineffably impressive skills and knowledge and are so helpful, but patients must keep careful records and stay on top of what is going on (for long courses of treatment I mean) - thankfully my wife is an organisational star. My head is spinning with all the various drugs FIL is on (at different times of day, some before food, some with food). How an old person with no one to help them would cope I have no idea. Thanks again for everyone's helpful advice. A forgotten cannula is no biggy - but yes, after 72 hours or so to can get infected so as several have said, pull it out, or get them to if next appointment is imminent. FIL has finished his first 5 radiation treatments today and has more energy than ever. They warned it would leave him in some pain and tired. He appears as fit as a fiddle. We've had him staying with us but he wants to go back to be with his wife now at their place. We just hope he'll remember what pills to take and when.