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no, we have been together for 5 years and the future looks bright!
my thoughts are just concerned with money. i want to contribute to the house yet feel it could be throwing my money away as, despite it being 'our' house, officially the house has nothing to do with me (no-one who gets married thinks they'll divorce but it does happen. and i want to be covered for anything that could possible happen)
Can you get put onto the deeds without being on the mortgage???!!!!