Very fetishes become obsessive.

[Bewlay Bros]

Sorry to post some Saturday night smut, but this is actually a serious topic.

As you may know I have a fondness to lovingly spank female bottoms. Most of them both enjoy and deserve it anyway.

However, when I meet up with Nigella soon and she says "Wardy, I know I have a slappable bottom, but I am afraid I do not enjoy posterior punishment, so I shall not let you" I really would not mind. I could happily go through life without ever spanking a derriere again. The same as I could without red meat or malt whiskey.

My question,

At what point do fetishes become a problem or obsession? I can not accept that any man or woman would not be happy with say, Madeleine Stowe or Johnny Depp if all they could have forever and a day is missionary style.

[NannyAnnie]

Johnny Depp forever and a day would probably be enough for me, well, someone has to do it.

[Ice-Maiden]

I'd say a fetish becomes an obsession when you can't live without it, and it becomes a problem when it annoys other people.

[China Doll]

Generally when you can no longer control the fetish I would imagine.

[ermintrude35]

...but surely the point is that ratther than go on looks alone , one should find a like minded partner in the first palce, once it gets boring in bed for one or both parties then it's the beginning of the end....

[Miss Random]

Bewlay Bros....Wardy....???

Who are you, and who gives a damn if the sl utty chef likes her botty spanked by you or any of your other disguises?

Grow up..... t w a t ......

[mrs bucket]

well said Miss Random
wardy needs help
im a regular donater to children in need

[Miss Random]

Thank you for agreeing with me mrs bucket, however, I find your answer a little disturbing.... if taken literally....

monetary donations?

[mrs bucket]

suit youreself
lol
and yes

[Bewlay Bros]

who's rattled your cage Random??? And why do people say I have disguises? I am Bewlay Bros, it is no secret I was once wardy and I have never hidden behind the fact. So what exactly is your point considering wardy has not been used in over THREE years!!!!

Stupid woman.

And bucket, if you think I am entering in to any insult with an illiterate working class piece of fatherless scum like you, I am afraid you should stick with other no-hopers like Random.

[Miss Random]

then I apologise, I also donate to childrens charities,.....

wasn�t sure if you were a real person or a night troll, please forgive me.

Hi mrs bucket, how are you?

Missy

[Miss Random]

Wardy.... total liar.....

Have only been on AB for a year yet remember you. So Three Years?.... I think not, ...

By the way what was your question you complete nonsense of an individual you..... yes, I do remember you.... full of hot air and nonsense as I seem to remember.....

???

[Bewlay Bros]

Random go and find a boyfriend you so desperately crave you ugly old b!tch.

Than we can all be spared your childish and rather inane rants.

I imagine you have be an historical example of domestic abuse. Well quite frankly you probably deserved it. Let's hope it hasn't scarred you too much.

Bless.

Good night lonely child. XX

[Miss Random]

LOL @ Bewlay sister!!!

Bless you honeybun, not abused ....just amused ......
love people like you for my nightime venom!

cheers for being a sport, though sadly a rather pathetic one....
anyway sweet dreams hun!

[lindapinda]

When you're talking about Madeleine Stowe,Wardy...I hope you mean before the trout pout !!..Ruined ,We Were Soldiers ..for us!

[hy4web]

What troubles me is the "they deserve it anyways". So I would say that it's an issue when it crosses into violence.
The vast majority of fetishes are just very specific ways to enjoy sex. And today is World Fetish Day: https://www.vivastreet.co.uk/blog/uk-top-sexual-fetishes/