Hi mimififi,
I know what you mean starting early In 18th and 20th are nephews birthdays , Christmas Day, and then Boxing Day is my son's Birthday!!!
I'm very careful now not to put 'junk' jokey type stocking fillers as you end up wondering what to do with them in February. I look out for cheap CD's of old albums he used to have, books, shower gel, bottle of beer, chocolate, etc He actually quite likes socks he's says they are boring but a traditional part of Christmas - one year I didn't get any and he complained!!
Considering when you both open your stocking what about - stockings, small bottle of bubbly, and a bow to put round your neck!! I can't think of any red blooded male who wouldn't like that!