A bit late in the proceedings, but crete came back after making the 'tea' , because he/she mentioned the "gang"/"cliquey" people and not being one of them, felt they couldn't join in and be accepted. I said she/he should join in with the ones that reply, and ignore the ones that don't (like I do). For a while he/she started to crack some funny retorts etc, and a couple of us encouraged him/her.
Then she/he said "got to go the nurse is here" and that is the last I saw of their name, until looking on Suggs they asked about getting help...