One Of The Hardest Things I've Done

[Bobbisox1]

Gone to a neighbours house who's daughter passed away on Saturday morning aged 44 , no one can possibly imagine losing your child , no matter how old they were
These women are the strongest people ever

[Mamyalynne]

No one should bury their child, heartbreaking.

[Theland]

Hey Soxy, that is a difficult and uncomfortable position to be in.
You probably struggled for adequate words of comfort, but your presence and empathy must have spoken volumes.

[Bobbisox1]

You are right a Mamya , I was in awe of the fortitude and strength Carols shows

[Bobbisox1]

I listened TL as she wanted to talk about her girls last moments that she shared , she's asked me to do the photo for the casket which I will

[marval]

How very sad to lose a daughter at only 44. I am sure you being there and listening was a comfort for her.

[Bobbisox1]

It was only 3 weeks from diagnosis Marval

[marval]

No time at all to prepare for either of them. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

[Theland]

Its certainly a reality check for is all.

[Bobbisox1]

Yes , mine too Marval , for two young boys and a grieving husband too

[barry1010]

I do hope your neighbours' don't use AB.

[Bobbisox1]

She doesn't but she'd be absolutely fine anyway, but something tells me this is the last place she'd be right now!

[barry1010]

If visiting a grieving mother is one of the hardest things you've ever done, you've had an easy life, Bobbisox.

[Bobbisox1]

Barry please look again at the OP and you just might see 'One' in it?

[gulliver1]

It is very difficult to Know what to say, and when you have said it you think to yourself did I say the right words , very very difficult and so sad, at such an early age.

[Tashi]

That is just so sad, no family should lose a Wife, Daughter and Mother at that age. I hope your visit helped.

[albaqwerty]

Visiting will be a comfort, Bobbi.
They will stil be stunned by the speed and in shock from the result.
Heart-breaking.

[Bobbisox1]

She's a remarkable lady that I sat and just listened to , she shared her memories with me with a photo album