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He likes everything done his own way, Ummmm.
He does pay his own way and we pay the same amount each month into the joint account for bills.
He became a bit controlling over my overtime and tried to control how it was spent. He's now got his overtime back and to be fair he said he would put it all towards the house and extras. He paid for the service and brakes on my Hyundai the other day because he's been mostly driving it since my accident.
Perhaps he's had a good word with himself.