Why Would A Married Man Hold A Daily Conversation With A Female He Used To Date?

[honeybun35]

My friend calls me all the time in ref to a man she has known since 1990. They hadn't seen each other until she bumped into him a function in 09. They both were married but she has divorced in 2011. He is still married and they had sex in 2014. She tells me this all the time don't know what to say. He is happily married him and his wife brought nice house in 2016. He told me friend they grew apart.

The couple lives at least 6 hours south of where she lives.When he comes to town he never attempts to see my friend. The puzzling thing is these 2 communicate all the time through facebook messenger.They talk on a daily and this have been going on for yrs. I do say he is faithful to his wife because he never sees my friend. Now reason for my post because she ask me about it I think he is just being entertained and he just need something to do in spare time. I will add they chat til they fall asleep probably 1 am and will began again like 6 am when getting up for work. I am in because she put in her situation so I just need to get other opinions as well.

[alavahalf]

You never know Jo .. ask your husband, if he is having a fling with someone who lives 6 hours North ?

[Old_Geezer]

Now't wrong with having a pen pal. Assuming this is simply the modern version of that. (Talking until 1am does suggest his marriage may not be in the best of states though. Especially carrying on again at 6. Where's his wife at these times ? Is it an "open" marriage ?)

[Atheist]

I think Eve's got it.

[Cloverjo]

When I’m having my sexy texts I pretend I’m doing a sudoku if Husband walks past. Is that bad?

[Cloverjo]

Alavahalf, perhaps he is.

[alavahalf]

Not trying to cast any doubt .. 8-)

[bodeker]

Don't get involved .

[honeybun35]

I'm already involved the time she put me in .