men on the subject of women....debate

[sueking1]

what do single, unattached men look for in a woman? I'm after trueful answers - so do you like shyness for example, but rudeness or hearing a woman swearing turns you off.
If you overheard a girl bitching - would you look twice? Do you have a certain type that you always go for - tall and dark, short, brown eyes etc? Do you like flirty, girly girls or strong, switched on business women. Is power and assertiveness attractive?

Just interested in your preferences and see if theres any trends that I could associate with todays culture.

[mccfluff]

well accordinly to this guy who tried to pull me on sat, having my own long hair, confused me until he explained, no extentions etc

[laurence2]

1. like women to be themselves {ie natural not fake}
2. sense of humour
3. speaks their mind
4. romantic/loving/caring
5. like football
6. pay for around of drinks

Don't like women who are,

1. Loud
2. over bitchy
3. Butch looking [thats not the lesbian type i.m refering to}
4. Dirty looking {thats the unwashed look?}

Could go on all night on likes/dislikes

[ELVIS68]

I don`t think men go for the gobby/tarty type ie Jordan/Jodie Marsh

As long as they have a sparkle in their eyes,gsoh and haven`t been round the track a few times then I`m interested

[tictactoe]

Hey laurence,

I'm 1-6 on your likes list

worked in Fleet St for 13 yrs and always bought my round in drinks (I was the only female in the group I drank with lol).

n00dles

[mccfluff]

im quite scared i'm 1- 7 on WM's list

[mccfluff]

although not 3

[laurence2]

ttt, i hate it when women expect men to buy the drinks, its an instant no no for me


Gin & tonic

[DotH]

I am all but 4 on WM and don't understand laurences lol

[tictactoe]

Wardy does 3 mean you won't be taking the lady out for a meal then? How come you advised someone on here t'other week about an excellent Thai restaurant??

[filthiestfis]

1) down to earth
2) low maintenance
3)Not bitchy or up herself
4) loyal
5)has family values
6)is adventurous in cooking i.e. not just spag bol or ready made dinner
7)sweet in looks and character
8)likes animals although not intensely
9)shares common interests with me like travelling
10) shares my sense of humour and outlook and opinions
11)Isnt loud or overtalkative
12) is on same emotional wavelength as me

These are the things that spring to mind consistently. Im just looking for someone like me who is a bit more feminine.

[mccfluff]

oi just cos i eat in public doesn't mean i would ever eat one of those dog meat things ergghhhhh, chips maybe but that it

[noxlumos]

Turn ons are:-
1. Intelligent
2.long hair
3. nice natural figure ( no extensions, fake boobs etc)
4. articulate and genuine
5.not assertive ( sexually)
6.down to earth
7.passionate
8.not a fashion victim ( must dress to her own taste and style)
9.be happy with who she is
10. nice smile

Turn offs are:-
1. loudmouths
2.fake anything ( eyelashes, boobs, hair etc)
3. bitchiness or unkindness
4. shallowness
5.tarty dress
6.stupidity
7.sexually assertive
8.money grabbing and consumerised
9.no ambition
10.lazy

Basically if someone is pleasant, kind, non phoney, warm and genuine and doesn't want to tie me up and whip me in bed then they're alright by me.

[mccfluff]

WM we ob mix in different circles i would never eat on a public highway, how common, you have gone down in my estimation

[mccfluff]

ok i'll let you off then, but only if you pop over to music and answer my Q

[Goodsoulette]

Nox, why is being sexually assertive a turn off? are you saying you just want a woman to lie back and think of england or you dont like **********, or you just can bare it if a girl is giving you tips on how to get it right.

[noxlumos]

Lol @ Goodsoulette. I just don't like women who are sexually dominant, I find it a huge turn off. Obviously I don't want a partner who just lies there and I'm not adverse to suggestions etc obviously as sex is something to be enjoyed by both parties and I always try to fully accomodate my partner in any way she desires, but that's not sexual dominance, that just being a good partner. I just don't like assertive women in bed, they leave me cold.