how will i get pregnant

[avia16]

ive been trying for a baby for nine months and theres still no joy. any suggestions or ideas

[Loosehead]

Do you live near Bournemouth?

[Catso]

Just keep on sh4gging. Enjoy!

[Kim A]

i know this might sound sarky, for which I apologise, as it's obviously a serious matter to you, but have you considered not trying? I've known several people who got fed up with bo*king at the 'right' time, and all that malarky and just decided they were going to let nature take its course. Hey, presto! Pregnant.
Whilst you continue to put yourself under pressure to conceive, you're not giving your body the chance to do things for itself. Just um, how can I put this delicately............lie back and enjoy it! Good luck!

[kate1976]

I have to agree with Kim A, I too know quite a few who once they've said they've given up they've conceived!

Easier said than done but just relax and stop putting yourselves under pressure, a baby will come soon, I'm sure! In the meantime you can take my 11 year old monster although that may put you off for life!!

Good luck!

[girlyrodders]

Hi have you and your partner had any tests?

After 2 years of trying my husband got tested and he was fine but when i was tested it showed that for the last two years we had been trying i hadnt been ovulating. i thought i was because i was still having periods. you can get home tests to test when your ovulating but if you are concerened then your doctor will do blood tests to make sure your making the right hormones.

Also i have found out loads of info from following website:
www.babycentre.co.uk

as said above try and relax i have heard of lots of people forgetting about it and falling but what worked for me was planning dates etc trying to keep it fun and having reflexology which got me ovulating!!

Good luck!!

[doglady]

I'm in the same boat as you. Since we've been trying, one friend has had one baby and is now on her 2nd, one friend has got married and is now pregnant, and her sister has just had a baby. It's very frustrating, but I'm thinking of you sweetie.

[doglady]

And I'm thinking of sleeping with someone else, cos I'm guessing that the one time I don't want to get pregnant is the one time I will!!!!

[gregwithnail]

We used ovulation detector sticks we bought from Ebay, but in the end I have to agree with the others... The night our son was conceived ws the on night we weren't "trying".

[ianess]

Let gravity help.
After the event keep your hips raised up on a pillow for example........it was a tip given by an old-fashioned doctor many years ago and it seemed to work.
Enjoy trying.

[Meso]

My old biology teacher was a councellor for people who couldn't get pregnant.
She always told the class that her main advice to people was a bottle of wine and an early night.
I can imagine the stress of trying to get pregnant could put stresses on you both mentally and physically.

[Matheous]

avia16
I would like to apologise on behalf of all male contributers!
-It IS funny to see the funny side of this!!!

Seroiusly, if all else fails -there are loads of children without parents & a home who need adopted.....I know because I was one and I never used the opportunity to thank my 'adoptive parents' while they were alive, which I now very much regret.