How Do You Convince Your Spouse To Move When You're In A Bad Situation?

[KSLL]

My spouse doesn't know it but we're in a bad situation. Because of this he refuses to consider moving away, which I understand but I feel more and more helpless every day and I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm carrying the burden of something potentially bad happening to us and I can't tell him or anyone else about it. I need to find a way for us to move but don't know how.

[calmck]

Not knowing the "bad situation" it is difficult to give advice

[aelmpvw]

//My spouse doesn't know it but we're in a bad situation//
shouldn't you discuss it with him?

[jackthehat]

If you are in such a bad way, you need to be honest and open with your spouse.
Carrying a burden alone may well be stopping you seeing the woods for the trees.
Take a deep breath.....write down what it is you need to say and then find a time when it is quiet and you can explain everything without interuption.
Good luck.

[Maydup]

Its hard to imagine your husband agreeing to move away if he cant understand why, or but he must wonder whats bothering you so.

If you cant talk to your husband about it, can you talk to anyone else?

[Old_Geezer]

Insufficient information. But generally one can not convince someone. You present the evidence for your viewpoint and hope they convince themselves.