I Handle It With Anger And Don’t Know If I Can Trust Her To Move Forward?

ZoDaGoat6 | 10:13 Mon 04th Jan 2021 | Family & Relationships

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My wife has done something’s as well as I have I lied about have set with someone before her unprotectedly and I lied about give a girl my number before we where engaged or married. So my wife had lied about being I contact with her x best friend she happen to be her first girl experience and to this day the girl still prefers girls. She lied about taking to her behind my back while I was at work but accused me of things on our phone records which I didn’t know I could do so she saw that the random numbers where from work but with her doing that I looked at hers an saw she spend months covering up talking with this girl for hours. The next thing she lied about is her daughter had an asthma attack at the time we were not in good terms but we live together. I went to my moms but she felt since I did that it was okay to invite her x girlfriend of 5years to see her daughter but she of course they talked about us and at the time she was 2 months Prego. The hospital stuff happen a year ago but when I told her I knew someone else was there she lied and I saw for myself but I allowed her to change my judgment meant through her calling me crazy insecure I burden it knowing I was right I found out because her daughter got mad at her and say did you tell him who really visited us. It hurt because what I did was thrown in my face multiple times when she had dirt or the fact we have had many heart to hearts asking each Other is there any you need to tell me every time she said no so I asked about that she said she forgot got idk how to handle it in blew I up nonviolently And was called immure and childish as well as she compared our lies. I feel it’s not the same because we where engaged she robbed me of the pureness that believing her drove me . the fact she’s never lied made me fall in love with that and now it just hard because I was always remembered what I did and torn apart now I’m broken lost and confused on the verge of divorce