Just to let everyone who replied to me last week know, the wedding went beautifully. My grandson wore his pageboy outfit without a murmur, the walking down the aisle bit went slightly pear shaped, the flower girl wouldn't come unless her mum held her hand and my grandson came down and then went back again, but that just made everyone laugh. They were both really good from then on. Thanks for all your advice last week.
Just read your other post in A&N, really sorry about your daughters loss, I didn't post in it as I can't offer any advise, just wanted to let you know that you/your daughter has my sympathy over her loss.