I think it is one thing to make the best of what you have got and entirely another thing to make yourself what you are not. If people don't like themselves how can they expect others to like them? Considering the illnesses, disabilities and disfigurements some people have to live with I cannot understand why people can't be grateful for what they have.
Mamya: //I doubt a decent explanation will be forthcoming.//
I don't know if this is an 'explanation', simply a picture of Megan as a child without comment;
i thought i had given some examples of how sad it can be, its about trying to fit in i would have thought, some black girls have been known to come a cropper using bleaching products on their skin.