Phobia Of Rejection From Women Even After Achieving Phd Education And Bodybuilding?

[Doctorsky]

Having massive phobia of rejection by pretty ladies, I do have approach anxiety. So, how do I overcome approach anxiety when they give me all signals for me to approach them? I fear rejection & be insulted by them or humiliated by their mates beside, or don't want them frame me as a stalker or stranger bother them. Don't want them to call police or me or report me to their boyfriend or savage gang brothers to beat me up!

[bobbinwales]

Welcome to answerbank? How come you have avatar allready?

[pixie374]

Become friends first. If you are at risk of being "beaten up" or rejected, you are doing it wrong in the first place.
Take it slowly, don't look at it as "approach" just chatting. If real Anxiety is a general problem anyway, then that needs help elsewhere first.

[bobbinwales]

Its not uncommon. Many of us were anxious about approaching people and feared rejection. Not sure how we still did it looking back. Just go for it- its very rare it ends up in being beaten up or accused of stalking, specially if they gave the right signal's

[Atheist]

Hello. What was your doctorate? What country do you live in? In the UK we don't often have gangs of savage brothers beating people up for saying hello to their sister.

[archibaldy]

Understand that the rejections are very necessary, if you got a favourable reaction every time, or it was so easy that anyone could do it then the game would be easy so the prize would not be worth winning. The girls that reject badly are doing you a favour, giving you a challenge, making you seem braver, scaring the other guys off.

Re-evaluate your goal, if your measure of success is a perfect reaction every time then you will consistently fail because it won't happen, the measure of success should be to purely to give them the gift of the chance to get to know the wonderful you a little better, what happens after is irrelevant.